Hi Sue, I agree with Diana...breast cancer is breast cancer, but she's right about connecting with people who've experienced or are experiencing exactly what you are. I can tell you that your emotions are normal and accepting and exprrssing the anger correctly (that often comes across as sadness) can help with the emotional side. You have every right to be pissed off!! Sometimes we need to scream, but instead we cry and get snippy wih people . Go ahead and let it out , girl! And definitely seek out the social workers at yor hospital--they are amazing. Best wishes to you!!